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This is your permission to receive with ease
Hi Beautiful,
Did you know there’s a version of you who’s already magnetic?
Already soft?
Already safe to receive more, without the burnout?
But for so many women, that version feels far away.
Not because we aren’t her.
But because we’ve spent so much of our lives performing, overgiving, and shrinking to be chosen.
We were taught to:
Prove our worth through doing
Control the outcome to feel safe
Give more than we have just to feel enough
And eventually, we wonder why nothing’s flowing.
Receiving Isn’t Something You Earn.
It’s Something You Remember.
Your receiving energy doesn’t need to be “activated” through more effort.
It returns when you stop leaking your power.
It flows when you stop trying to earn what you already deserve.
Receiving is a frequency.
And it’s activated when you:
Choose rest instead of pushing
Ask for support instead of carrying it all
Trust your body instead of outsourcing your worth
Say no, knowing that creates space for what’s right
This shift didn’t happen overnight for me.
I had to unlearn a lot.
I had to get comfortable with slowing down, even when my mind screamed “Do more.”
I had to let go of the guilt that came up when I rested.
I had to practice asking for help, even when I wasn’t sure how to receive it.
But every small choice to honor myself started to shift something deeper.
I began to feel safe letting life support me.
Not because I checked every box, but because I finally believed I didn’t have to carry it all alone.
But here’s the part we don’t always say out loud:
Overgiving might look like strength, but it feels like depletion.
It feels like smiling when you’re tired.
It feels like answering one more text when you want quiet.
It feels like pretending you’re fine when your heart’s screaming for rest.
It feels like being praised for your resilience while secretly wondering when it’s your turn to be held.
If that feels familiar, you’re not alone.
You’re not broken.
You’re just overdue for a new standard.
One where ease, softness, and support are allowed.
Introducing: She Who Receives
If this is the season where you're softening, letting go, and manifesting from ease instead of effort, I created something just for you.
She Who Receives is a gentle PDF guide designed to shift your energy from proving to attracting.
Inside, you'll find:
The subtle signs you're manifesting from survival, not softness
Gentle journal prompts to return to your receiving self
Feminine rituals that help your body feel safe holding more
A new standard for love, money, and support rooted in nervous system safety and ease
It’s soft, sacred, and written for the woman who’s done pretending she’s fine carrying it all.
Because you were never meant to.
A Soft Reminder
You don’t have to push to receive.
You don’t have to prove to be loved.
You don’t have to earn your softness.
You are the portal.
You are the magnet.
You are already enough.
Let yourself receive that.
With abundance always,
Crys
P.S. If you know a friend who’s been in her overgiving era and is ready to soften, forward this to her. Let’s rise in our receiving together. 💗
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