The Less You Force, the Faster It Flows

Hi beautiful,

I want to offer you a gentle reminder today:
What you’re calling in doesn’t need to be chased. It needs to be received.

And sometimes, the energy of trying too hard is what slows it all down.

I’ve seen it so many times.
In myself. In clients. In the way energy moves.
The moment we soften our hold, things begin to shift.

The moment we stop trying to control every outcome…
The moment we stop proving we’re worthy of it…
The moment we let our nervous system relax…

That’s when it flows.

Not because we gave up,
But because we finally created the space to receive.

Here are a few signs you might be unknowingly forcing:

✨ You feel tense around timelines.
✨ You constantly check your phone, your email, or your bank account.
✨ You overthink your content, your pitches, or your pricing.
✨ You feel guilty when you’re not “doing enough.”
✨ You can’t rest until there’s proof it’s working.

If any of this feels familiar, I want you to know something.
There is nothing wrong with you for wanting it.
But you were never meant to push yourself into alignment.
You were meant to settle into it.
To soften into your next level.
To trust that what’s aligned will respond to your energy, not your pressure.

Because when you return to calm certainty…
That’s when things begin to land.

Your magnetism wakes up.
Opportunities feel clear.
Your desires meet you in ways you couldn’t have planned.

Soften your hold.
Come back to your body.
And allow it to find you.

Abundance always,
Crys

P.S. Forward this to a friend who’s been trying too hard to make it all work. She deserves a soft timeline too 💌