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She stopped performing. Life shifted.
Hi Beautiful,
If you’ve been feeling stuck in your manifestations, like something isn’t working or flowing, I want to offer you this:
You’re not blocked.
You’re just still identifying with the version of you who had to hustle, prove, and over-perform to feel safe receiving.
And that’s not who you are anymore.
The Wound That Says You Have to Earn Everything
Maybe you learned that love had to be earned.
That rest made you lazy.
That being chosen meant being useful.
That the more you did, the more worthy you became.
That version of you? She was doing her best. She protected you.
But now she’s tired.
And your next level is asking for something softer.
Abundance Comes When You Stop Performing
When you’re stuck in performance mode, even your manifestations become effortful.
You journal to get it right.
You visualize, then double-check if you did it enough.
You affirm, but it feels like a script.
You do all the right things, but your energy is still rooted in needing to prove.
Receiving requires a different posture.
It’s not performance.
It’s permission.
A Shift to Try This Week
Instead of trying harder, try softening.
Instead of pushing, try trusting.
Instead of chasing, try choosing to already be the version of you who is worthy, right here.
Here is a gentle prompt to sit with:
“If I believed I didn’t have to earn this… how would I show up today?”
Let that version of you take the lead.
You Are a Match Now
You do not have to become her.
You already are.
She is just buried beneath old habits.
And every time you choose ease, rest, softness, pleasure, truth, you remember.
You shift your frequency.
You become magnetic.
You stop waiting to be chosen and realize you were always the portal.
You were never blocked.
You were just playing small because that felt safer.
But you are safe now.
And you are ready.
With abundance always,
Crys
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